Kandayia Ali - IAMOmni

When Privacy Becomes a Weapon: The Hidden War of Digital Humiliation By Kandayia Ali — IAMOmni There’s a special kind of violence that doesn’t leave bruises. It lives in screens, whispers, and stolen images. It’s the modern form of spiritual warfare—humiliation disguised as entertainment, manipulation masquerading as justice. Revenge porn isn’t about lust. It’s about power, control, and public degradation. It’s meant to dismantle your sense of safety, dignity, and belonging—to make you question your own reflection. For me, it began quietly. Files I never consented to share appeared where they shouldn’t have. Someone with too much time and too little conscience decided to play god with my privacy. Law enforcement was involved. Evidence was logged. Two years later, there was no resolution. That silence became its own form of cruelty. When nothing happens, the victim carries not just the trauma but the implication that their pain doesn’t matter. What I’ve learned is that humiliation isn’t...

Digital Erasure: When Justice Goes Silent By Kandayia Ali — IAMOmni Watching your life disappear right before your eyes is a living nightmare. Even those witnessing it are confused as to "why you of all people?" Crying wolf wasn't my aim after being erased from my own life-- seeking answers and justice was, and still is... When systems ignore victims- silence becomes another weapon. In 2023, I did what any responsible person would do: I contacted law enforcement. My identity had been stolen, my information manipulated, and I had proof — emails, reports, and a Florida driver’s license that somehow showed I “never existed" in a state that I was raised and lived in for over 90% of my life. A deputy confirmed the glitch, wrote a report, and gave me a case number. Then … nothing. Months passed, then years. My life remained in limbo, caught between data corruption and bureaucratic disbelief. When you’ve been digitally erased, you start to understand how revenge, humiliatio...