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Volume 1 - Part 3: LOTT - Backbiting Before Backstabbing

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VOLUME 1 - PART 3: The Cost of Looking Away CPTSD Side Effect Alert “Many victims of backbiting, betrayal, and abandonment suffer from silent CPTSD—a trauma response created by consistent invalidation, group neglect, and spiritual isolation. Looking away is never neutral—it becomes a form of energetic consent to evil.” WHEN SILENCE ISN’T SACRED There is a sacred kind of silence… And then, there is the kind that lets evil thrive. When backbiting, slander, or betrayal unfold in plain sight, many people look away—not because they don’t see, but because they don’t want to be seen standing against it. This “innocent” silence becomes a ritual of complicity. In spiritual warfare, neutrality is a myth. The moment you witness harm and choose not to act, you become part of the ritual. You lend your energy—consciously or not—to the outcome. “They didn’t swing the sword— but they steadied the hand of the one who did.” SPIRITUAL BYSTANDER KARMA In many sacred texts, passivity in the face of wrongd...

Volume 1 - Part 1: LOTT - Backbiting Before Backstabbing

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VOLUME 1 - PART 1: THE RITUAL OF THE TONGUE BACKBITING ISN’T “JUST TALK.” IT IS A SPIRITUAL RITUAL OF HUMILIATION USED TO DESTROY SOMEONE'S REPUTATION, ENERGY FIELD, CONFIDENCE, AND SPIRITUAL PROTECTION IN FRONT OF WITNESSES. IT IS OFTEN DONE BEHIND THE VICTIM’S BACK, BUT ALWAYS WITHIN ENERGETIC EARSHOT. THIS ISN’T ABOUT “VENTING.” IT’S A CALCULATED FORM OF: GROUP SOUL DISASSOCIATION PSYCHOLOGICAL SLANDER ENERGETIC SABOTAGE THE GOAL? TO ERASE THE TARGET'S SACRED IDENTITY THROUGH TONGUE-BASED RITUALS OF DISTORTION. THE SPIRITUAL ROOT:  EVERY MAJOR SPIRITUAL TEXT WARNS AGAINST THE TONGUE: BIBLE (JAMES 3:6): "THE TONGUE IS A FIRE, A WORLD OF INIQUITY." QUR’AN (49:12): “WOULD ANY OF YOU LIKE TO EAT THE FLESH OF HIS DEAD BROTHER?” TORAH (LEVITICUS 19:16): “DO NOT GO ABOUT SPREADING SLANDER AMONG YOUR PEOPLE.” WHY? BECAUSE WORDS SHAPE ENERGY, AND ENERGY SHAPES REALITY. WHEN MULTIPLE PEOPLE BACKBITE THE SAME TARGET, THEIR COLLECTIVE ENERGY BUILDS A CURSE—A FALSE CONSTRUCT ...

Vol 6 - UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Article Series

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UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Vol. 6 – The REAL Pain? Is In The Silence… By Kandayia Ali - IAMOmni This is sacred ground—because most people never speak aloud about the silent, invisible weight both the abuser and the abused carry. Not the loud explosions. But the tight, aching tension—the kind that doesn’t scream, but suffocates.  Let’s name some of them: the mental and emotional strains that operate like ghosts in the mind, for both roles—without judgment, but with truth. FOR THE ABUSED “I didn’t mean to bother them. I should’ve just kept it in.” 1. Fear of Being a Nuisance – constant inner questions (“Did I say too much?”) leading to apologizing for existing.  2. Emotional Compression – guilt for feeling, repressing both sadness and joy.  3. Chronic Hypervigilance – tracking others’ moods, overthinking, scanning for threats.  4. Mental Exhaustion – CPTSD flashbacks, rehearsing worst-case scenarios, self-gaslighting.  5. Loneliness While Surrounded – unseen...

Vol 3 - UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Article Series

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UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Vol. 3 – Family as the 'Alter'  by Kandayia Ali  When the deepest betrayals come from those closest to you—family, lovers, friends, mentors—it’s not just trauma. It's a ritual-level soul fracture. And it’s how many victims of complex spiritual interference are broken down from the inside out. This volume explores how loved ones can become unwilling participants in spiritual sabotage, how family systems can function as altars of energetic sacrifice, and how to recognize, revoke, and rise above hidden contracts woven through intimacy and bloodlines. 1. Family as the Altar These people have energetic keys to your inner gates (emotional, genetic, karmic). Their words and actions pierce deeper than strangers, creating double-binding confusion: “This can’t be abuse—they say they love me.”  Examples include public shaming by a parent, rejection by siblings echoing karmicrivalries, or cycles of love-bomb and discard.  Systematically, this becomes ...

Vol 2 - UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Article Series

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UNDetected: NO FACE NO CASE Vol. 2 – Fingerprints? Where? By Kandayia Ali How can dark esoteric practices lead to a person’s demise without a suspect or “fingerprints”?  This is a profound and heavy question—and one that many spiritually aware survivors have asked, especially those who’ve sensed dark forces operating behind the veil of physical reality. What I’m referring to aligns with spiritual assassination, energetic homicide, or what some mystics call soul-targeted death. These deaths leave no trace, no suspect, and often get labeled as “natural causes,” “sudden medical complications,” “suicide,” “accidental,” or even “a broken heart.” 1. Energetically Drained to Death “Death by a thousand invisible cuts.” Prolonged energetic harvesting (trauma, sleep disruption, targeted suffering) depletes life force. The immune system weakens, organs fail, or chronic illness sets in. It looks like a disease, but it’s death by extraction—no crime scene, no foul play, just a slow ...