Volume 1 Part 2: LOTT - Backbiting Before Backstabbing
(Volume 1) Part 2 Betrayal by Blood, Bond, Sister, or Brotherhood CPTSD Side Effect Alert Betrayal trauma by trusted figures causes identity fragmentation, emotional paralysis, and a fear of authentic connection. It often triggers deep isolation and existential grief: “If the people who ‘loved’ me could do this, who am I really safe with?” Backbiting is often the doorway. Betrayal is the knife.Once your image is publicly altered through gossip or group distortion, the betrayal phase begins. This is where former friends, relatives, coworkers, or partners: Withhold support Rewrite your story Use your pain for clout or distance Pretend they “don’t know” what’s happening THE DARK ART OF ABANDONMENT There is a ritualistic energy behind abandonment. It mimics crucifixion. It mimics exile. It mimics the betrayal of sacred trust. But what makes betrayal spiritual is when those with sacred bonds—like blood, love, or shared missions—become part of the targeting. They betray you not just to ...